AN INFLUENTIAL has revealed the nasty comments she receives for being a young mother.
Nicole Smith, a 20-year-old stay-at-home mother of two girls, Jasmine and Rosie, explained that haters will accuse her of being a “child having a baby,” while others will claim that her children will have a “bad life.”
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However, the girl mom made sure to silence the haters and share the truth about being a mother in her twenties.
Posting on social media, the content creator posted a video of herself and her eldest son, with the caption ‘I’m a young mother and I’m not ashamed of it’.
Nicole then said, “’Kids having kids’ is a comment I get a lot here.
“If you are new here, my name is Nicole, I am a 20 year old housewife.
“I became pregnant with Jasmine at 17 and again at 19.
“So ‘kids having kids,’ let’s talk about that for a minute.
“I chose to have my two children at that time – I always wanted to be a mother.
“I always said I wanted to be a young mother.”
Nicole shared that haters will claim that her children will have a ‘bad upbringing’, just because of their age, as she responded, “’You’re setting your kids up for a bad life and a bad upbringing’ – first of all, my kids They are loved so much and not just by me but by everyone in our family.”
Nicole also confirmed: “My daughter is well fed, has a warm bed to sleep at night, a house with lights, I could go on.
“But you’re right, I don’t live in a £500,000 house, nor do I take my daughter abroad four or five times a year.
“She’s not dressed head to toe in designer clothes [clothes] – but I can tell you one thing, children don’t care about things.
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“I can go to bed at night knowing that my daughter is the happiest girl in the world.
“You don’t have to be a mother at the age I am, but I really love my life. And nothing will change that.”
REACTION FROM SOCIAL MEDIA USERS
The TikTok clip, which was shared under the username @NicolesmxthIt clearly left many speechless as it quickly went viral and has since racked up a jaw-dropping 1.9 million views.
Social media users rushed to the comments to share their support for Nicole, while many praised the young mother.
One person said: “This melts my heart because I want to be a young mother.”
To this, Nicole responded: “I love being a mother.”
Another added: “People shouldn’t be judged by the age they have children, if they can provide for that child and give them the love they need it doesn’t really matter.”
A third commented: “You look amazing mum!”
Meanwhile, someone else wrote: “You sound like a great mom.”
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At the same time, other users took advantage of the comments to share their own pregnancy and family stories.
One mother explained: “I had my daughter at 17 and my son four years later, at 21.”
Pros of being a young mother
Tracy Kiss, who became pregnant at 19, has revealed what she believes are the benefits of being a young mother.
The personal trainer and blogger from Buckinghamshire believes women who give birth in their teens make BETTER mothers than those in their 30s.
She claims that young mothers get back in shape faster, have more energy and bond more easily with their children, which means they behave better and are happier.
Tracy told Fabulous: “Women who become first-time mothers in their teens make better parents than those in their 30s and 40s.
“I believe if I had been around 10 years older before becoming a mother, I wouldn’t have the relationship I have with my children now.
“For starters, being older I would have less energy and therefore less patience.
“I wouldn’t be as excited about talking to people after months of sleepless nights as I was in my teens.
“My body returned to its pre-pregnancy size through postpartum fitness, which in turn gave me the confidence to date and find love again. I have never been happier than now, at 30, with two children.
“If I were alone at 40 with a newborn baby, I would be more tired, less happy with my body, less energetic and much more stressed by the shock of living my life for myself instead of putting others first.” . and the innocence of ignorance is a good thing.
“As a teenage mom, I just moved on, got myself together, and became responsible and capable because at the time I didn’t know any different.”
A second chimed in: “I was 23 when I had my son (now 26) and I still hear that comment. Honestly, some people have nothing better to do with their time!”
Another user wrote: “My mom had me at 18 and my sister at 19 and she is the best mom I could ask for.”
While one pregnant user wrote: “I’m 20 years old and pregnant with my rainbow daughter. People have been so cruel about this. She is so loved and that’s what matters.”
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