A WOMAN has revealed she had three children before she turned 25.
Cheyenne Drover, who is from California, USA, shared that trolls said she “ruined” her life by having young children.
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However, the brunette beauty made sure to applaud the haters who doubted her and was eager to justify why she chose to have children as a teenager.
Although the age of consent in the UK is 16, according to the Office for National Statisticsthe average age of mothers giving birth in England and Wales is 30.9 years old – almost six years older than Cheyenne was when she had three children.
Posting on social media, the content creator, who has an impressive 208,400 followers on TikTok, shared a message for “all the young people who hate moms”.
The mother of three said doubters often judged her decision to become a young mother and told her: “You ruined your life by having children at a young age.”
But in light of this, Cheyenne, who clearly wasn’t bothered by the rude comment, was eager to respond, as she explained, “It’s my life, not yours.”
As she posed in a white top, showing off her full chest and stomach, she then gave the haters the middle finger.
She then stated that she is happy to have children young, as she will be able to enjoy her forties, unlike older mothers.
The influencer, whose arms are covered in tattoos, then lashed out at the older parents.
She wrote: “All my children will be independent by the time I’m 40 while you change clothes and make bottles.”
She then added: “To each their own.”
The TikTok clip, which was posted under the username @cheyennedroverIt clearly left many speechless as it quickly racked up 42,800 views.
What does the law say?
The legal age of consent in the UK is 16.
The law exists to protect young people from abuse, harm or being taken advantage of by adults.
It is not intended to criminalize young people and there is no intention to prosecute people under 16 years of age when both mutually agree (consent) and when they are similar in age.
But children under 13 are considered too young to consent.
Therefore, any sexual activity with anyone under the age of 13 is illegal and considered rape, sexual abuse or assault.
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Therefore, children between the ages of 13 and 15 are unlikely to be prosecuted as long as there is not a large age difference between the partners and the sex is consensual.
Many young mothers agreed with Cheyenne and flocked to the comments to share their own stories about having young children.
One person simply said, “I agree.”
Which areas of the UK have the highest rate of teenage pregnancy?
- Middlesbrough (43.8)
- Saint Helena (37.1)
- Halton (34.9)
- Hartlepool (33.2)
- North East Lincolnshire (33.2)
- Blackpool (32.9)
- Hyndburn (32.8)
- Kingston over Hull (32.7)
- Norwich (31.3)
- Salford (30.7)
Source: ONS
Another added: “I had my daughter at 17 and now she’s 26 and has three kids that I’m still young enough to have fun with.”
A third commented: “Really, my 40s will be the best.”
This Is Why I Love Being a Young Mom
Tracy Kiss, who became pregnant at 19, has revealed what she believes are the benefits of being a young mother.
The personal trainer and blogger from Buckinghamshire believes women who give birth in their teens make BETTER mothers than those in their 30s.
She claims that young mothers get back in shape faster, have more energy and bond more easily with their children, which means they behave better and are happier.
Tracy told Fabulous: “Women who become first-time mothers in their teens make better parents than those in their 30s and 40s.
“I believe if I had been around 10 years older before becoming a mother, I wouldn’t have the relationship I have with my children now.
“For starters, being older I would have less energy and therefore less patience.
“I wouldn’t be as excited about talking to people after months of sleepless nights as I was in my teens.
“My body returned to its pre-pregnancy size through postpartum fitness, which in turn gave me the confidence to date and find love again. I have never been happier than now, at 30 years old, with two children.
“If I were alone at 40 with a newborn baby, I would be more tired, less happy with my body, less energetic and much more stressed by the shock of living my life for myself instead of putting others first.” . and the innocence of ignorance is a good thing.
“As a teenage mom, I just moved on, got myself together, and became responsible and capable because at the time I didn’t know any different.”
At the same time, another person wrote: “Each parent has their own!!
“I had my first at 21 and I will have my second at 24! My sister doesn’t want kids until she’s 35.”
Meanwhile, one mother explained: “We can live longer with our children! I had mine when I was 20 and 22!
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