My boyfriend dumped me after I ate an ‘entire salad’ because he said I was ‘foodie’ and must have ‘butterflies in my stomach’

A SHOCKED woman was abandoned after a meal with her date.

He accused her of being “greedy for food” and explained that he became furious while they were eating.

Diamond (@koolkartierr) shared the texts of their meeting on X, formally Twitter.

He revealed that he had a complaint about her that overshadowed the otherwise enjoyable meal.

“Honestly, Diamond. You seem [an] amazing woman, but I don’t think we’re compatible,” he wrote.

He explained that his stomach turned after watching her eat.

“You ate the whole damn salad, which isn’t elegant at all,” he added.

“It makes me feel like you are greedy for food and I need a woman who knows when to stop eating.”

Her boyfriend said he didn’t think they would work out, considering her lifestyle.

“You know I prepare meals and go to the gym daily. I feel like you will be overweight in the near future,” he said.

He noted that he had no other complaints about her.

“I still want to leave, but it bothered me. I almost exploded,” he said.

“I love your vibe and energy. You’re perfect, it’s just one thing, plus it’s our first date. You were [sup]posed to have butterflies [and] Shit, how could you eat so much?”

Reddit User SoCold40 later shared a screenshot of her post, prompting others to weigh in on her boyfriend’s behavior.

Although it was only their first meeting, many commentators felt it should be their last.

“A salad? He’s doing all this because she ate a salad? Just block him and move on. He seems full of himself,” one person said.

Some thought that a healthy appetite was the opposite of an undesirable trait.

It makes me feel like you are greedy for food and I need a woman who knows when to stop eating.

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“A good girl who eats a whole rack of ribs is the dream,” insisted one Reddit user.

Others thought their date’s messages represented a huge red flag.

“Something tells me this man has a LOT of opinions about what women should do,” another person explained.

Many agreed that her meeting did her a favor by sharing her concern.

“She dodged the bullet and got a free salad. It’s a victory”, highlighted another commentator.

“Furthermore, if she talks about this award again, she must respond to anything he says with the names of salad dressings and ingredients, in an absolutely deadpan manner,” they added.

“‘Is as [you] I have been?’ ‘Blue cheese.’ ‘How is your work?’ ‘Creamy Vidalia.’ — Well, it was good to see you. ‘Spinach, spinach'”, they joked.

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