A FRUSTRATED woman has spoken out about her fight with her fiance’s best friend.
She explained that she was called “jealous, controlling and petty” after she turned down his friend’s suggestion for her own wedding.
O Editor shared their wedding drama in a viral post.
She explained that she intended to have an unconventional wedding in August with her fiancé, Matt.
“We decided we want a non-traditional wedding that disregards stereotypical gender roles so my little brother can be my man of honor,” she said.
“Matt agreed with this idea and wanted his best friend, Jenna, to be his best employee. He and Jenna have been friends since high school.
“When his mother passed away in high school, Jenna and her family were a huge support system for him. Now, they are like family to him.”
The Redditor explained that she was never close to Jenna despite her best efforts.
“I never got along with Jenna. Because she’s so close to Matt, I’ve tried to connect with her, but I’ve always had the feeling that she has a crush on him. Matt shares that sentiment,” she said.
In the past, Jenna has made “passive-aggressive digs” about her appearance and behavior.
“I tried to talk to her about how it upsets me, but she told me she thought, ‘This is how girlfriends tease each other.’
“I talked to Matt about it and he confronted her for me. Afterwards, we agreed that it would be better if I didn’t date her anymore.
“That was years ago, but now she’s back and making marriage proposals that make me uncomfortable. For example, she tried to convince me to change colors to better match her skin tone.”
Despite the irritating situation, the Redditor felt that she handled the situation the best way she could.
“I’d like to chime in here and say that I’m super cool with this whole thing, and Matt has been a peach stepping in for me.
“But her latest idea was to walk Matt down the aisle; Since I no longer wanted to be walked down the aisle, it would be a perfect gender role reversal.
“Matt thought it was a really fun idea. The way her face lit up probably would have convinced me to agree if she hadn’t said it in such a frightening way.
“She said that since Matt’s mother is no longer here, she should ‘turn him in.’ To clarify, I chose not to be walked down the aisle because I find the whole “giving” thing a little gross and outdated.
“I suggested that Matt and I walk down the aisle together. And she told me that Matt’s mother actually knew her and would approve her proposal there instead of me.”
In an attempt to have a private conversation with her fiance about the decision, she tried to take him to a different room.
“I grabbed Matt’s arm and took him for a private talk. I was explaining how this crossed the line of what I was comfortable with, considering her crush on him,” she said.
“She invaded [into] room, hurling accusations at me. She called me jealous, controlling, petty and manipulative.”
The insults ended his decision immediately.
“I admit I snapped and told her she wouldn’t take him out, and that’s final, and if she kept pressuring me, she wouldn’t be invited.
“She ended up running out of the room in tears. Matt told me I could have handled this better, and I can’t make these kinds of decisions without his input, even if they’re just empty threats.
“I feel like he’s right and I feel bad about what I said, but I honestly think she deserved the wake-up call.”
Although her fiancé thought she went too far, people thought she didn’t go far enough.
“She invaded your private conversation, making accusations, and she’s STILL invited to the wedding?” asked one commenter.
“Be real badass.”
“If it were me, she would be removed from our lives and marriage unless she gave her a well-deserved apology and backed off – if you decided to forgive her”, agreed another.
“If someone made my partner reasonably uncomfortable, I would 100% support my partner and respect their boundaries.”
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