THIS woman caused controversy online after admitting she got pregnant with someone else’s baby when she cheated on her husband.
Nokwazi Ntombela, 33, posted a shocking video where he admits to sleeping with someone behind his partner’s back.
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Filming herself for her TikTok and YouTube channels, Nokwazi tells the story of how she had a one-night stand with a stranger and then became pregnant.
Originally from Randburg, South Africa, Nokwazi explains her reasoning behind why she did what she did.
Leaving a girls’ weekend, she met a mysterious man and had a one-night stand with him.
Hoping the actions don’t catch up with her, she reveals how she later discovered she became pregnant shortly after the one-night stand.
As she did not know who the child’s biological father could be, the couple remained together despite the problems.
She shared how she told her husband about the situation and how the couple worked together to discuss the problem.
This is outrageous!
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Believing that her husband has forgiven her, the couple tries to forget the cheating scandal and put everything behind them.
Posting the shocking series on her TikTok page, she racked up hundreds and thousands of views, with many users taking to the comments.
One surprised user said: “This is outrageous!”
While a second added: “This series has me hooked!”
UK infidelity statistics
Cheating is one of the most cited reasons for divorce in the UK, as reported by the Office of National Statistics – but who is doing it and how are trends changing?
However, while many may assume that it is usually the man who is being unfaithful, this trend is quickly changing, according to Global Investigations.
Data collected by the National Opinion Research Center’s General Social Survey revealed that the percentage of married women who had affairs increased by almost 40 percent between 1990 and 2010, reaching 14.7 percent, while the number of men who admitted to having extramarital affairs remained constant at around 22%.
Although UK infidelity statistics show that the percentage of men who have affairs while married continues to be higher, in non-married relationships, men and women are now involved in infidelity at similar rates.
For example, a 2017 study found that 57% of men and 54% of women admitted to having committed infidelity in one or more of their relationships.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they could be hiding something.
Aaron says “If your partner starts changing passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere, even at home, or becomes defensive when you ask to use their phone, this could be a sign that they’re not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, they could be hiding something.”
They start to talk less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you, this may be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly started avoiding you and they no longer want to do things with you or stop telling you about their day, then this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Your libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it may not be a clear sign of cheating, but it could be a warning sign, according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheats often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but sometimes they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good, which can cause tension and anxiety within them that they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and start criticizing you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, put away the dishes, or read a book. set aside for your children before bed. A small problem like this can now seem like a big problem and, if you experience it, your partner could be cheating on you”, warns Aaron.
Once a cheater, always a cheater?
We’ve all heard that saying – but is it true? Unfortunately, data previously found by The Sun paints a worrying picture.
In a survey carried out by YouGov, one in five British adults admitted to having had an affair – and only half stopped at one.
20% had three or more and 8% had five or more.
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