I thought my husband of 8 years was cheating on me but it was our catfish neighbor – it’s scary how she got the ammo

A WOMAN has revealed the terrifying story of how her neighbor’s appalling actions tore her marriage apart.

She split from her husband more than a year ago – but now knows the truth about what happened.

On social media, she revealed that she was devastated when she received a message saying that her husband of eight years was using dating apps.

Now they have been separated for over a year and are currently “not speaking”, but she is desperate to rekindle their relationship after discovering the truth.

She explained: “I received a message on Facebook in September last year that my ‘husband’ was chatting and exchanging nude photos with other women on Tinder.”

I was convinced he was cheating and we had a terrible fight

After talking to one of the women her “husband” was talking to, she was shown screenshots of the conversation and photos.

The furious wife decided to install Tinder, the dating app he allegedly used to find his profile, and found what she thought was his profile.

She said: “I was convinced he was cheating on me and we had a terrible row that night which led to my family coming over to defuse the situation.

“But instead, the situation escalated when my brother punched and grabbed my husband.”

“The neighbors called the police and asked my husband to pack some things and stay somewhere else for a while.

‘We separated soon after, and he has since moved to Sydney to be closer to his ailing father, but sees our children at the weekend twice a month.’

It’s been 14 months since the pair split and she was finally moving on – until someone knocked on the door.

She was shocked to discover that her neighbor was catfishing a woman online, using her husband’s photos.

The woman wrote: “[The neighbour] I downloaded these photos from a Macbook we lent him during COVID, and some of these photos were intimate in nature…and mine.

“Police are currently dealing with this.”

Now she was eager to talk to her ex-husband and wanted to make amends – but she wasn’t sure if it was too late.

She wrote: “I am so scared that we may be too far down the rabbit hole and that he will probably push for divorce even though I know we love each other deeply but this has had a huge impact on our mental health, finances and well-being. be with our three children.”

People who commented on the Reddit post were supportive, but many believed the relationship was over for good.

A few months later, she updated the subreddit, relationship_adviceso they know the result.

She wrote: “It was decided that our marriage was beyond repair and that we should go our separate ways.

“He is currently in therapy and requested that we have a clean break, with no further contact on the future – I intend to respect your wishes and will continue to communicate through your lawyer on matters that concern our children.”