A WOMAN questioned her entire marriage before she even had the chance to walk down the aisle.
She was left distraught after finding evidence that her partner may have cheated during his hen party two weeks before the big day.
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On social media, the woman revealed that she had no suspicions that her partner was unfaithful until she saw a shocking email on her computer.
The bride-to-be said: “I saw an email over my fiancé’s shoulder from an online pharmacy asking for an STD kit, a week after he got back from his bachelor party.”
Now she was perplexed and didn’t know how to approach the subject.
I never thought I’d be the kind of woman who wouldn’t say anything
Future bride
Many of us have an idea of what we might do if we caught our partner cheating – whether that’s confronting them immediately or gathering evidence first.
And the woman revealed that she never thought she would be the type to keep quiet, but she found herself doing exactly that.
“I never thought I’d be the kind of woman who wouldn’t say anything/confront him, but it’s less than two weeks until our wedding and I don’t know how to broach the subject,” she explained.
Now, she wasn’t sure what to do with the wedding quickly approaching and found herself among the reasons he bought the sexually transmitted infection testing kit.
“One minute I’m convinced he bought it for someone else and the next I’m beside myself not knowing what to do/how I should marry him,” she added.
Now she was asking people online whether they should bring it up or leave it alone.
People were quick to share their opinions on the Mothers Network post and many asked her not to marry her husband, saying it was obvious he had thrown it away.
One person wrote: “Please, in the name of all that is holy, do not marry him. He is putting his health at risk!!! Call off the wedding unless you want a lifetime of this anguish and possible STDs.”
Another commented: “OP you know he bought this for himself. You know he had sex with someone else a few weeks before he married you.
“Don’t marry this man. Don’t marry this man. Don’t marry this man.”
“It’s easier to call off a wedding than to get a divorce,” wrote a third.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they could be hiding something.
Aaron says “If your partner starts changing passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere, even at home, or becomes defensive when you ask to use their phone, this could be a sign that they’re not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, they could be hiding something.”
They start to talk less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you, this may be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly started avoiding you and they no longer want to do things with you or stop telling you about their day, then this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Your libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it may not be a clear sign of cheating, but it could be a warning sign, according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheats often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but sometimes they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good, which can cause tension and anxiety within them that they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and start criticizing you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, put away the dishes, or read a book. set aside for your children before bed. A small problem like this can now seem like a big problem and, if you experience it, your partner could be cheating on you”, warns Aaron.
Meanwhile, a fourth said: “If he cheated on you now, he will cheat on you again when you get married.”
“Just ask him as soon as possible, don’t delay. His reaction will tell you the truth,” said a fifth
Someone else added: “It’s better to call off a wedding than get divorced. Talk to him, you’ll know by his reaction. Ask him to show you his messages/emails.”
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