A WOMAN has shared her heartache after finding out who her three-year-old brother’s biological father is.
The 24-year-old explained how she discovered the mini-tot is actually her mother – and her fiancé’s – love child.
The young woman said she had been in a relationship with the 25-year-old man for almost a decade, after growing up in the same neighborhood.
She added that her fiancé has always gotten along with her mother, which was very important to her, as she compared her relationship with her mother to “the real-life Rory and Lorelai from Gilmore Girls.”
Taking to Reddit to share the bizarre story, she wrote:
The woman wrote on Reddit: “My fiancé and I have been together since we were 17 and 18.
”Honestly, he was always kind, handsome, funny and everyone used to say that I was so lucky to have the complete package.
“I also felt really lucky. He always treated me with love and respect, so that makes it all so shocking to me. I’ve always had a good relationship with my mom.
Nothing was weird – he was just my then-boyfriend spending time with me and my brother
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“It was always her and me against the world. My father died in an accident when I was little.
”My mom dated guys on and off and they were generally nice, but nothing really got past the early stages.”
However, about four years ago, her mother, then 42 years old, surprised her with fabulous news – she had become pregnant.
Although her mother was dating someone, the announcement came as a huge shock, her daughter revealed – but little did she know that her life would later turn upside down.
Her brother, now three years old, has a very close bond with his sister – and even her fiance stepped in to help their mother keep the little one entertained.
“Nothing was awkward – he was just my then-boyfriend spending time with me and my brother,” she added.
But one day, her world came crashing down when she came home and turned on Netflix.
At some point, she revealed, her laptop died and, being “lazy” to get the charger, the woman took her fiance’s iPad.
After logging in, the iPad started emitting a bunch of messages – and that’s when she discovered the shocking truth.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond, from BondRees, revealed four warning signs that your partner might be cheating
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they could be hiding something.
Aaron says “If your partner starts changing passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere, even at home, or becomes defensive when you ask to use their phone, this could be a sign that they’re not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, they could be hiding something.”
They start to talk less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you, this may be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly started avoiding you and they no longer want to do things with you or stop telling you about their day, then this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Your libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it may not be a clear sign of cheating, but it could be a warning sign, according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheats often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but sometimes they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good, which can cause tension and anxiety within them that they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and start criticizing you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, put away the dishes, or read a book. set aside for your children before bed. A small problem like this can now seem like a big problem and, if you experience it, your partner could be cheating on you”, warns Aaron.
”My mother’s number was not in her name, but I recognized the number and checked it with my phone.
“She was telling him that she felt guilty and that I should know. He said he felt guilty too, but he couldn’t lose me and they ruined everything.
”She said that it was unfair for my brother to never stop knowing his father, and that if he could live with his son around, he would not behave like a father, but like a brother-in-law. I broke down. Which is the real F!”
Desperate to know more and get the full picture, the horrified woman also came across several photos of her pregnant mother, her newborn brother and other photos showing her early years.
She continued: “I couldn’t take it anymore. I cried for what felt like ages and waited for my boyfriend to come home.
”I wish I was one of those women who can pretend and work things out before confronting the cheater, but I can’t.”
Face becomes ‘completely pale’
Her man returned later, and she immediately handed him the iPad with all the evidence – the conversation began – and saw his face “go completely pale”.
After being confronted, he allegedly explained how and what happened years ago when his future bride traveled with her daughters.
“They felt guilty, but apparently not guilty enough, because they slept together two or three more times, using the excuse of meeting to discuss how to tell me.
“Apparently, when my mother got pregnant they stopped sleeping together and decided not to tell me, since my fiance ‘loved me and couldn’t lose me’ and my mother didn’t want to lose her daughter.”
Disgusted and distraught, she broke off the engagement and has yet to properly address her mother about the bombshell discovery.
Not knowing how to follow up on the news, the woman – who currently lives with a friend – turned to social media to ask other people for advice.
“I feel bad for my brother because I really love him, but I can’t be around him right now, I just can’t.
“I feel like it would remind me of all those times we talked about having kids, I would be his baby mama, just his baby mama, we’ve been talking about this future since I was 17, so I feel like throwing up every time I think about how I was actually taking care of his son with someone else, while still having those dreams about wanting to throw up.
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