My sister secretly dated and got engaged to my ex – she wants me as her bridesmaid but I refuse to go to the wedding

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A WOMAN was outraged to discover her sister was secretly dating her ex-fiancé.

The couple is already engaged and the woman refuses to go to the wedding, despite being invited to be a bridesmaid.

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The woman refuses to serve herCredit: Getty

On Reddit, the 28-year-old revealed that she and her ex-partner Mike had been together for five years and engaged for two.

They planned to get married last summer, but three months before the wedding she discovered he was cheating on her.

She said: “It was devastating and I called off the wedding straight away.”

The woman said Mike then moved out and she began to move on with her life.

However, a year later, the woman’s sister Lily revealed to her that she had been secretly dating Mike and that the couple were now engaged.

She added that her parents had known about the relationship for a few months but remained silent “to protect her.”

“My head was spinning and I felt like I was going to pass out,” the woman said.

Lily had promised that the relationship had not started before her sister and Mike separated, and tried to justify the relationship by claiming that they were meant to be.

The woman said: “I felt betrayed on so many levels.

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“I told them all I wanted nothing to do with their marriage and left furious.”

The woman said she was asked to be Lily’s bridesmaid, but refused to attend the ceremony

The post was flooded with thousands of comments from social media users, many of whom shared their disbelief at the situation.

One person said: “Omg it’s messed up that she’s marrying your ex who cheated on you.

“The fact that they were secretly dating makes me think she was the other woman. I don’t blame you for not going.

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“I’m sorry this is happening. Your parents are wrong too. But your sister is the worst.”

Another person said: “If he cheated once, he will cheat again. Don’t go to the wedding.”

A third person said: “Your sister shouldn’t have contacted Mike after your break-up – that was such a betrayal in itself.”

A fourth added: “Don’t go to the wedding.

“Your family chose your sister over you, and at this point, there is no going back.

“I would cut them off, attack them on social media and then block them.”

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